tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9061404560949789015.post7455816822420583930..comments2023-06-03T07:02:00.030-07:00Comments on Trisomy 18 Loss- Music and Musings: Secrets, Secrets #MicroBloggingMondayBabyBlueSundayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10950512228359479460noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9061404560949789015.post-17359730479072775822015-04-17T06:18:45.568-07:002015-04-17T06:18:45.568-07:00I know. Last time this EXACT same thing happened w...I know. Last time this EXACT same thing happened we ended up having a good talk. I do understand why it's awkward, but it's weird to know about a pregnancy and just... not say anything. It doesn't help that I'm very (uncomfortably) open about where I am in treatment. BabyBlueSundayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10950512228359479460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9061404560949789015.post-60127118314154443922015-04-17T06:16:59.654-07:002015-04-17T06:16:59.654-07:00Haha. I wish I could do that- but my big mouth usu...Haha. I wish I could do that- but my big mouth usually gets me before I can manage.BabyBlueSundayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10950512228359479460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9061404560949789015.post-23013012980630806752015-04-17T06:16:17.006-07:002015-04-17T06:16:17.006-07:00That's like a spin-off of my "less awesom...That's like a spin-off of my "less awesome" deja vu! I'm thinking about a conversation- if only because she has a friend who just had a third failed IVF cycle. Luckily she lives out of town- so my guess is she doesn't know but couldn't know. Which is less bad.BabyBlueSundayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10950512228359479460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9061404560949789015.post-28781186107695307032015-04-16T12:23:34.453-07:002015-04-16T12:23:34.453-07:00So many hugs to you. So here's some weirdness,...So many hugs to you. So here's some weirdness, my pregnant best friend at work (PBFAW) is named... "Rae" That's where the similarity ends though. She told me she was pregnant when she got the lines on a stick and recently drove me home from my last D&C while she was 11 weeks along. We had some really difficult conversations when I was pregnant and then again when I losing my baby (for many weeks) while she was continuing on with a healthy pregnancy (Thank god). Depending on how close you are, you might want to consider a full-on conversation about what it feels like to be like the person who no one wants to tell they're pregnant. My Rae appreciated my candor when I described the conflicted emotions of being pregnant together and waiting for the day when there would only be one of us.justonemorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08347973233337053745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9061404560949789015.post-18199591017330718322015-04-15T17:59:13.223-07:002015-04-15T17:59:13.223-07:00What is the DEAL with people not saying they'r...What is the DEAL with people not saying they're pregnant? It's like a contest to NOT tell. It totally stinks to be the last to be let known...and also the last to be pregnant again. I'm sorry. I wish people knew how to say something that's not easy to say without making it weird. Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07589146108622036946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9061404560949789015.post-8089504075622361132015-04-13T17:22:58.381-07:002015-04-13T17:22:58.381-07:00So odd that she is waiting for you to bring it up....So odd that she is waiting for you to bring it up. I think some part of me would not say anything at all, and let her get bigger and bigger, and finally say (after the birth): "but I had no idea!"Lollipop Goldsteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020874415819057995noreply@blogger.com