- My plan was to update on or around the 7th of each month I'm just going to update the Goals post each time and change the publication dates.
- So it is now 2014- here is how my 2013 goals went
- Lose weight so that I feel healthy. Probably ~ 20lbs (3 lbs below my pre-pregnancy weight- from 164 to a goal 144)
- Feb- I've gained 7 pounds..... 171 (I think this was a flukey high day)
- March- Lost those 7 from last month and 3 more to boot!... 161. This puts me on track to meet (and beat!) my goal!!
- June- I got down as low as 157. Back up to 160 now that I'm 9.5 weeks pregnant! This goal has been modified to:
- Now 161.5 at 18.5 weeks pregnant. I'm not gaining much weight at all and am a little concerned that I won't gain enough vs. gaining too much.
- Hahaha oh my last update made me laugh. At 32 weeks I'm now up to 176.4. That's +15 from nadir, +9.5 from start. Aiming for 25 total. I'm on track!
Wrap-up- now almost 6 weeks pp and down to 158- that means I lost all the pregnancy weight ( 18lb from start of pregnancy), gotten to my lowest pregnancy weight (160- a 24 pound gain total) and lost a bonus 2 pounds. Goal attained.
- Pay off one student loan
- I actually just paid off last semester's school, but some went on a credit card, so I haven't done this yet, but I'm working on it
- Paid off another $1000. Not a whole loan- but I'm on track!
- June- Paid off one!!!- Just in time to gain one back- last 6 credits coming your way.
- Yes, as expected, now loan was taken for final 6 credits. Booooo
- Paid off about 20% if the new loan.
- Wrap up- done. Yay
- Read at least one book a month for fun (AKA not research or schoolwork)
- Success for January! I read The Racketeer It was enjoyable.
- Fail. I am half-way though Defending Jacob by William Landay, which is really good so far.
- I've read 4- not the 5 I was supposed to have read: I completed Defending Jacob and read The Mephisto Club by Tess Gerritsen and Delusion in Death by J.D. Robb. Yeah- not high literature.
- I read an awesome book called "The Thirteenth Tale" I highly recommend it. (This means I'm 2 books behind)
- I've read a baby book, but that doesn't count. I read a really lousy book I don't remember the title of in September. 6 of 11 planned :(
- Wrap-up: fail. I did read 2 additional books between the last update and the end of the year. 8 of 12. I actually have aleady read 3 books this year. Nursing helps with weightloss and reading!
- Complete my Master’s (need practicum, exam, and 6 credits)
- Submitted all paperwork for the Practicum
- Have done 36 hours of 114 of my Practicum
- Have done 114 hours of 114 of my Practicum- need to finish abstract and poster- present in August
- Have just 2 class meetings left and then will only need 4 more credits. I have registered for my last class. I present my practicum on 8/28. My only concern is that my comprehensive exam is 11/22. I'll be 5 weeks from EDD.
- Practicum = done :); 2 of 6 credits = done; 8 of 14 class meetings for final 4 credits = done; review session for exam is today, exam the 22nd!!!!
- Wrap up- Sooooo I finished and passed my last class, finished and passed the practicum and then failed my comprehensive exam. In my defense, I was 35 weeks pregnant, didn't fit in the seat and not dialed in when I attempted it. Will retake in April- fail.
- Finish the Corrib 5K in less than 28 minutes (The first Sunday in June)
- My first (and only) 5K run of the year was 38:03. I need to cut 10 minutes and 3 seconds off my time.
- On track to fail. Brought my run time down, but only by a minute. 37:01
- Fail- Finished in about 41 minutes. But it was 95 degrees and I was 9w2d pregnant.. not the time to push it. I'll defer this goal to next year
- Be better about keeping up with my friends
- Well... I called and hung out with my college friend.. who ended up being a pregnant friend. So I'm a bit afraid to reach out to anyone again.
- I've had a few good times out and about and we've planned two summer events.I'll call that a win.
- Does the toilet bowl and couch count? No? Well- we "ran" the race with a few friends, and went to a concert that night with a few others. I've been trying to socialize more. Win.
- I've done well at this. Depression was making me a hermit. Now that I'm happy, things are good.
- Still good- but slowing down with actually going out. I'm do tired.... Lots if calls and emails though. I've even gotten back in touch with a good out-of-state friend from college.
- Wrap-up- win. I just needed to shake the sad :)
- Learn one new recipe a month
- Last month I learned Chicken soup. Yum
- Lemon cupcakes with Lemon whipped cream frosting and Raspberry and Almond breakfast muffins. Not dinner, but breakfast and a snack.. we'll call it a win, but need to work on real food.
- I made minestrone soup and messed it up in the end (NOTE: measures for pasta are COOKED not dry- minestrone stew anyone?). Since then food has not been on the list of things I want to be near. Fail.
- I can't stand looking at food. HUGE fail. I haven't even made thing I already know how to make.
- I made chili this month, and a chicken and past dish last month. That's 5 of 11, which sounds like a fail, but good was so awful to me I'm calling it on track.
- Wrap up- stuck at 5 of 12. I just didn't want to cook in 2013. Fail-ish
- Make real steps toward being a mom- ART or adoption
- In IF work-up
- Finally working with a RE, just completed our testing with him. Have a follow-up to formalize our treatment plan next week. Win
- Pregnant! Due 1/4/14. Pending win.
- Still Pregnant- 18w3d. Waiting on the anatomy scan a week from RIGHT NOW. If all is well, I'm going to call this Close to a win.
- STILL pregnant!!!! At this point I'll hold a baby of my own genes in my lifetime :) fingers crossed it's living.
- Wrap up- Liam Francis arrived save and sound 8 days into 2014. Huge win :)
- Re-do another room/area of the house
- This is part of the plan this (LONG!) weekend
- We've torn out the Small room, the snow has melted, so we'll be working on it this weekend
- Need to paint the small room and re-do the floors- then this is done :) Plaster is out, drywall is in. Win.
- Waiting on re-doing the floors in the small room. Otherwise, this is done. Hub doesn't seem to want to finish it before the u/s... I can't really blame him, but he was supposed to start the living room and hallways by now :/
- WIN!!! Small room is done. Living room, stair way and halls are torn out and well on their way to bring back in!
- Wrap up- finished Liam's room. Mostly finished living room- pending fine wood work. Success
- Survive to see 2014
- Working on it.
- Still here!
- Can't WAIT!!!!
- Tick tick tick
- Gosh I want this year over and this baby in my arms...
- Here and loving it!!
Month one re-cap:
Accomplished: 0
On-Track5
Needs Help: 5
Month two Re-cap:
Accomplished: 0
On-Track: 8
Needs Help: 2
Month five Re-cap:
Accomplished: 1
Deferred until Next year: 1
On-Track: 6
Needs Help: 2
Month Seven Re-cap:
Accomplished: 1
Deferred until Next year: 1
On-Track: 6
Needs Help:3
Month 11
Accomplished: 0
Deferred until Next year: 1
On-Track: 6
Needs Help:3
Deferred until Next year: 1
On-Track: 6
Needs Help:3
Year end:
Accomplished: 5
Deferred until Next year: 1
Modified: 1 (the weightloss thing feels like a win :) )Fail: 3
Deferred until Next year: 1
Modified: 1 (the weightloss thing feels like a win :) )Fail: 3
Not bad really :) all and all- success!
Good for you on the progress you've made! I read your last post too and I hear you loud and clear on all your points. IF is totally unfair and it's SO hard to make decisions like this. Even after a successful adoption and knowing we want to adopt in the future, our thoughts and conversations about child #2 are confusing and full of emotions wonder what we "should do." Hugs!
ReplyDelete